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Lesbian
Love Advisor
The Sweet Arts: Lesbian Flirting, Courtship & Romance Let
us begin with flirting. Isn’t
that where it usually begins? Flirting
is kindred to music, a light touch being both means and end.
The word itself derives from the old French fleureter, literally
to move lightly from flower to flower." A form of flirting is cruising,
more goal-oriented and assertive (con
brio). Each Lesbian
has her unique flirting style, with marvelous variations.
In the beginning, you may want to learn, even rehearse, a few
themes, or call them "opening plays" as in other field sports. Never fear; even if you feel terminally shy, you can still
develop the quality of "eloquent receptivity," possibly the
most magnetic of all seduction styles.
Lesbians appreciate that shyness is often a veil for the virtues. Natalie
Barney, the "American in Paris" whose brilliant art salons are
legendary, holds Lesbiana's title, "une seductive exemplaire."
Natalie devoted her considerable wealth and genius to friendship Oureuse,
picking up women lovers at the beach well into her eighties. While
her fluent bilingualism must have been captivating, one of Natalie greatest
charms was her capacity throughout life to blush like a novice upon being
introduced to a desirable woman. Who would not be delighted by a
compliment so roseate? Flirting
and cruising, also like music, improve with practice. There are
few easy short-cuts, although accents and blushes do help.
Consider using the following techniques, which we win discuss at length,
as part of a repertoire: clitzpah; conversational foreplay; body
language; knowledge of proven cruising places; and, for complete safety,
a rejection survival kit.
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